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The Effect of Parent's Verbal Control Types on Young Children's Lying Behavior

부모의 언어통제유형이 유아의 거짓말 행동에 미치는 영향

  • Lee, Ye-Ji (Consumer & Child Studies Major, Inha University) ;
  • Yang, Sung-Eun (Consumer & Child Studies Major, Inha University)
  • 이예지 (인하대학교 소비자아동학전공) ;
  • 양성은 (인하대학교 소비자아동학전공)
  • Received : 2011.09.15
  • Accepted : 2012.02.03
  • Published : 2012.06.30

Abstract

The purpose of this study was to find out the influence of the Parent's control based on young children's habit of lying. This study was carried out through experimental observations. For the purpose of this study a total of 798 participants were selected from 5 kindergartens located in Seoul, Gyeong-gi and Incheon. The results of the study showed that rather than parents being excessively strict towards their children and commanding discipline, the child rearing attitude of rational and logical explanation along with discretionary power given to young children of their own rules. This can allow young children to morally decide and behave themselves. Moreover, moral education that is suited for the young children's development in order to internally learn about the moral behaviors on their own is needed.

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